• Learn how to stop walking on eggshells?

  • Break free from the painful chains of abuse?

  • Discover your inner self?

  • Regain your confidence?

  • Stop attracting the wrong partners?

  • Find peace, joy, freedom, and happiness!







  • Self-paced abuse recovery program
  • Step-by-step recovery guide book


  • Encouraging abuse survivor stories
  • Exclusive online community
  • Bonus content to accelerate healing
  • Complimentary 15 min coaching session 

So much more than any counseling session and for only a FRACTION of the cost... 

Thousands of people (women and men) have found freedom and healing - you could be one of them



Absolutely Amazed

Andrea, GA

"I am absolutely amazed by the clarity it brings and the positive progress I’ve made because of it! It’s also incredibly helpful to know I’m not alone. It brings so much light and hope."

This is Gold

RC, India

"Oh my... Brandon this is Gold. Everybody should see this I could relate with every word of it. Every little bit of it. It really helps put things into perspective and make sense out of otherwise irrational behaviour."

Better than therapy

C.M., TX

"Storybook of my entire life. The whole curriculum was so easy to follow and it flowed like a story written in real time. It was so easy to grasp. This is gonna change so many hurting people's lives. I'm so thankful for it. This was actually better than therapy to me. It was so well connected, the flow of information was precept upon precept. A road map to freedom."

Frighteningly spot on

Diane B., registered psychotherapist

"...frighteningly spot on, at least for my situation. Frightening in that I am seeing in black and white what was going on, how I was responding, and the reasons behind all of it...Please take the time to read the information Brandon has shared here, regardless of where you are in the process."

Will help a lot of people


"This will help a lot of people, I wish I had it years ago"


Shannon, New Zealand

"I wish I had it 5 years ago."


Melissa D.

"Your modules are amazing."
Even if you’ve tried to get help in the past and no one believed you or all you got was advice that didn't work, this course can help you stop the madness, regain your self esteem, and create a new dynamic STARTING TODAY.


  • 1

    Welcome to the course!

    • Welcome to the Course


    • 3 Questions

  • 2

    Module 1: What You're Dealing With

    • Is this happening in your relationship?

    • Review

  • 3

    Module 2: Something's Wrong, But I Can't Put My Finger On It

    • A Pit in Your Stomach

    • Workbook: Common Bullying Phrases

    • Review

  • 4

    Module 3: Am I in a Relationship with a Bully?

    • Part 1

    • Part 2

    • Part 3

    • Part 4

    • Additional Signs and Red Flags

    • Module 3 Review

    • Supplement: JM's Story

    • Supplement: Real Life Example of Abuser Tactics, Email Exchange

  • 5

    Module 4: Why Do They Do That?

    • What's Going on Inside Your Partner

    • Module 4 Workbook

    • Protect the Ego at ALL Cost

    • Protect the Ego Through Control

    • Protect the Ego Through Fault Finding

    • Review

    • Supplement: Insights into the Abuser's Mind

    • Supplement: Elizabeth's Story

  • 6

    Module 5: Why the Relationship Never Gets Better (despite your best efforts)

    • A Narcissist's Prayer

    • Module 5 Workbook

    • Sick Cycle

    • Why the Relationship Never Gets Better

    • Why It’s Hard to Get the Help You Need

    • Why You Might Be Unknowingly Contributing to the Cycle

    • Review

    • Supplement: Meg's Story - emotional, verbal, psychological, and physical abuse

    • Supplement: Kaitlyn's Story - abuse

    • Additional Resources

  • 7

    Module 6: How Did This Happen?

    • Module 6 Workbook

    • How Did This Happen (to someone like me)?

    • So Really, How Did This Happen TO ME?

    • Review

    • Supplement: Kelli's Story

    • Supplement: The Power of Words, a spiritual perspective

  • 8

    Module 7: What's Wrong with Me?

    • What's Wrong with Me?

    • Supplement: Journal

    • Review

  • 9

    Module 8: Boundaries, Your New Best Friend

    • Module 8 Workbook

    • Overview

    • Getting Clear on What Boundaries Are

    • Boundaries Example and Why They Work

    • Another Boundaries Example

    • Will Boundaries Really Work for Me?

    • The Ultimate Boundary: The Hill You're Willing to Die On

    • Module 8 Boundaries Supplement: Maybe the most important handout

    • Review

  • 10

    Module 9: Where We've Been, Where We're Going

    • Where We've Been, Where We're Going

  • 11

    Module 10: Breaking Free from the Abuse

    • Module 10 Workbook

    • Overview

    • Two Other Reasons We Don't Set Boundaries

    • How Do You Know When it's Time to Make a Change?

    • Additional Thoughts to Help You Break Free

    • Review

    • Supplement: Journal Exercise to Help You Break Free

    • Supplement: Reclaim Ownership of Your Life

  • 12

    Module 11: Healing

    • Module 11 Quiz

    • Module 11 Workbook

    • Overview

    • Healing Exercise

    • Continued Healing

    • Healing: Keeping it All Together

    • Supplement: Journal Exercises for Extended Healing

    • Supplement: Working Through Emotional Trauma Spiritually

  • 13

    Module 12: What Does Healthy Look Like?

    • Module 12 Workbook

    • What is Healthy?

    • What Healthy Relationships Look Like

    • Final Thoughts to Promote Emotional Wholeness: Stay Healthy, My Friend

    • Video Supplement: You Are Enough

  • 14

    Next Steps

    • CONGRATULATIONS! What's Next?

    • Before you go...

    • Supplement: Key Thoughts in One Place

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Haven't you been walking on eggshells long enough?


Abuse Recovery Coach, Founder & 21 for 21

Brandon Pipkin

As an abuse recovery coach, Brandon helps people who are confused about their relationships and tired of walking on eggshells to find peace, freedom, and happiness. His insight and wisdom will help you move toward clarity, just as it has hundreds of others. He's an expert who speaks the truth with the kindness of a friend and the insight of one who really gets it (he's been there). He'll guide you through the process of self-discovery as you move from feeling hopeless to finding healing. Living in daily confusion to consistent clarity. Replacing constant conflict with beautiful peace. Let him guide you to a better life just as he has others for the past 23 years.

THIS COURSE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE. Information on this website and in this course is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for the advice provided by your physician or other psychological professionals. You should not use the information on this website or in the course for diagnosing or treating a health or psychological problem or disease, or prescribing any medication or other treatment. Information provided on this website and the use of any products or services purchased from our website by you DOES NOT create a doctor-patient relationship between you and any advisor affiliated with the website.


  • How can I pay without my partner finding out?

    If you're in an abusive relationship, chances are you are being financially abused so you fear your partner finding the charge on the debit or credit card.

    Can you open a new credit card in just your name? Sign up for electronic statements that you access through the bank website so they don't send a paper statement to the house or electronic statement via email.

    If that won't work, do you have a friend who would be willing to use their credit card for the charge and you can pay them in cash? Or trade them for services (babysitting, house cleaning, dog walking, etc.)?

    You could also see if the local domestic violence shelter would be willing to sponsor the charge. Perhaps they have donors who would be willing to cover the cost.

  • What if I think my partner is spying on me online?

    This is a very real concern. Abusers LOVE control and will often try to monitor what their partner does online.

    If this is a concern for you, create a new email account, get a new credit or debit card in just your name, and do a little research about how to keep yourself safe online.

  • How long will it take me to work through the course?

    This is a very comprehensive course. It is recommended that you treat each of the 12 modules like a counseling session, perhaps working through 1/week.

    You should work at your own pace and not rush it if you want lasting results.

  • Will the course really help me? I've tried to get help in the past...

    This is the most comprehensive, easiest to follow, most value-filled course on the subject. It took thousands of dollars and thousands of hours to acquire this knowledge, both through personal experience and piecing together the best information from competent counselors.

    It contains insights you won't find anywhere else, wisdom that will accelerate your journey and help ensure long-term emotional health.

    If you're not satisfied, simply cancel your subscription at any time.