Learn How to Stop Walking on Eggshells

Find the peace, freedom, joy, and HAPPINESS YOU deserve


"This is Gold"
"So much light and hope"
"Where has this information been?"
"Spot on"


  • 12 week self-paced abuse recovery program
  • Step-by-step recovery guide book
  • Encouraging abuse survivor stories
  • Access to FaceBook community
  • Bonus content to accelerate healing

You get so much more than any counseling session

(for a FRACTION of the cost) 

What You Get in the Program

  • ANSWERS about abuse is

  • INSIGHT as to why your partner does what they do

  • HELP to protect against future abuse

  • AMAZING CLARITY about how to create LOVING, HEALTHY relationships

  • SPECIFIC STEPS to take to find PEACE, JOY, FREEDOM, and HAPPINESS (and yes, you do deserve it)

Thousands of people have had access to this information and are using it to find empowerment and freedom from the cycle of bullying and abuse.

You could be one of them.

Start creating healthy relationship dynamics

My Story

You are not alone

I was confused. 

I was in pain. 

For years, I had tried to be the perfect partner. And what I got in return was a list of what I did wrong. And rejection. 

Didn't make enough money. Didn't help out around the house enough. Didn't support her enough. My teeth needed to be fixed. I had a double chin. My forearms didn't match the rest of my body. I was too spiritual. I wasn't spiritual enough. Sang too loudly. Couldn't count on me (although I was available to help her, but she would refuse to help me).

And then there was the rejection. Emotionally, physically.

We had actually started fighting just two days into our marriage. From there it only got worse. I tried to self medicate with destructive behaviors, realized what I was doing wrong, and committed the next 10 years to doing anything and everything I could to make the relationship better since i was always told it was my fault. 

Nothing was working. No matter how hard i tried, it was never enough. 

At one point, we had a 6-hour conversation about what I was doing wrong, that I think probably actually started with me trying to talk about something bothering me, but as usual got turned to how bad I am. At the end of the conversation, I committed to loving her in 4 out of the 5 love languages, helping more, and two other things.

I asked what she would be willing to do to improve our relationship. I got the standard answer I always got at the end of these conversations, just after I commit to changing what she says she needs from me, then I ask in fairness what she's willing to change.

"My mind doesn't think in a list. I can only do what comes naturally." Then she said, maybe I can learn more about what marriage really is."

After years of living in a painful and confusing relationship, one where I was told that I made eggs wrong, that my chest is too big, then it's too small, where nearly everything I did was wrong, I finally came across some information that opened my eyes. 

What I learned was what I didn't want to believe - I was experiencing verbal and emotional abuse. 

I still didn't know what to do about it though, and for another few years clumsily stumbled through the relationship still hoping I could make it better if I 'behaved well enough.'

Then along came the one lesson about emotional abuse that changed my life forever. Once I finally understood this one piece, everything else fell into place. 

Once I understood and acting on it, the relationship dynamics changed, I was happier, and I no longer took responsibility for things outside of my control, including my partner's reactions, thoughts, and feelings. 

In this course, I share that one thing and so much more. I share the thoughts that will set you free, the journal activities that will lead toward understanding and healing. Insights from an amazing counselor who helped me get to emotional wholeness and SO much more. 

What would it be worth to you to regain your happiness? Change your relationship dynamic? And stop walking on eggshells?


Absolutely Amazed

Andrea, GA

"I am absolutely amazed by the clarity it brings and the positive progress I’ve made because of it! It’s also incredibly helpful to know I’m not alone. It brings so much light and hope."

This is Gold

RC, India

"Oh my... Brandon this is Gold. Everybody should see this I could relate with every word of it. Every little bit of it. It really helps put things into perspective and make sense out of otherwise irrational behaviour."

Better than therapy

C.M., TX

"Storybook of my entire life. The whole curriculum was so easy to follow and it flowed like a story written in real time. It was so easy to grasp. This is gonna change so many hurting people's lives. I'm so thankful for it. This was actually better than therapy to me. It was so well connected, the flow of information was precept upon precept. A road map to freedom."

Frighteningly spot on

Diane B., registered psychotherapist

"...frighteningly spot on, at least for my situation. Frightening in that I am seeing in black and white what was going on, how I was responding, and the reasons behind all of it...Please take the time to read the information Brandon has shared here, regardless of where you are in the process."

Will help a lot of people


"This will help a lot of people, I wish I had it years ago"


Shannon, New Zealand

"I wish I had it 5 years ago."


Melissa D.

"Your modules are amazing."
Even if you’ve tried to get help in the past and no one believed you or all you got was advice that didn't work, this course can help you stop the madness, regain your self esteem, and create a new dynamic STARTING TODAY.


  • 2

    Module 1: What You're Dealing With

  • 3

    Module 2: Something's Wrong, But I Can't Put My Finger On It

  • 4

    Module 3: Am I in a Relationship with a Bully?

    • Part 1

    • Part 2

    • Part 3

    • Part 4

    • Additional Signs and Red Flags

    • Module 3 Review

    • Supplement: JM's Story

    • Supplement: Real Life Example of Abuser Tactics, Email Exchange

  • 5

    Module 4: Why Do They Do That?

    • What's Going on Inside Your Partner

    • Module 4 Workbook

    • Protect the Ego at ALL Cost

    • Protect the Ego Through Control

    • Protect the Ego Through Fault Finding

    • Review

    • Supplement: Insights into the Abuser's Mind

    • Supplement: Elizabeth's Story

  • 6

    Module 5: Why the Relationship Never Gets Better (despite your best efforts)

    • A Narcissist's Prayer

    • Module 5 Workbook

    • Sick Cycle

    • Why the Relationship Never Gets Better

    • Why It’s Hard to Get the Help You Need

    • Why You Might Be Unknowingly Contributing to the Cycle

    • Review

    • Supplement: Meg's Story - emotional, verbal, psychological, and physical abuse

    • Supplement: Kaitlyn's Story - abuse

    • Additional Resources

  • 7

    Module 6: How Did This Happen?

    • Module 6 Workbook

    • How Did This Happen (to someone like me)?

    • So Really, How Did This Happen TO ME?

    • Review

    • Supplement: Kelli's Story

    • Supplement: The Power of Words, a spiritual perspective

  • 8

    Module 7: What's Wrong with Me?

    • What's Wrong with Me?

    • Supplement: Journal

    • Review

  • 9

    Module 8: Boundaries, Your New Best Friend

    • Module 8 Workbook

    • Overview

    • Getting Clear on What Boundaries Are

    • Boundaries Example and Why They Work

    • Another Boundaries Example

    • Will Boundaries Really Work for Me?

    • The Ultimate Boundary

    • Module 8 Boundaries Supplement: Maybe the most important handout

    • Review

  • 10

    Module 9: Where We've Been, Where We're Going

    • Where We've Been, Where We're Going

  • 11

    Module 10: Breaking Free from the Abuse

    • Module 10 Workbook

    • Overview

    • Two Other Reasons We Don't Set Boundaries

    • How Do You Know When it's Time to Make a Change?

    • Additional Thoughts to Help You Break Free

    • Review

    • Supplement: Journal Exercise to Help You Break Free

    • Supplement: Reclaim Ownership of Your Life

  • 12

    Module 11: Healing

    • Module 11 Quiz

    • Module 11 Workbook

    • Overview

    • Healing Exercise

    • Continued Healing

    • Healing: Keeping it All Together

    • Supplement: Journal Exercises for Extended Healing

    • Supplement: Working Through Emotional Trauma Spiritually

  • 13

    Module 12: What Does Healthy Look Like?

    • Module 12 Workbook

    • What is Healthy?

    • What Healthy Relationships Look Like

    • Final Thoughts to Promote Emotional Wholeness: Stay Healthy, My Friend

    • Video Supplement: You Are Enough

  • 14

    Next Steps

    • CONGRATULATIONS! What's Next?

    • Before you go...

    • Supplement: Key Thoughts in One Place

All 3 options include UNLIMITED access to the comprehensive program PLUS an exclusive online community of support.

  • $9.00 first payment, $11.00 / month onwards

    Full Access to the Course

  • $27.00 first payment, $37.00 / month onwards

    Course + Group Coaching

  • $187.00 first payment, $197.00 / month onwards

    Course + 1Hr/Month Coaching


Are you ready to:

  • Stop living in fear of your partner's reaction?

  • Regain confidence and self-esteem?

  • Create a whole new relationship dynamic starting TODAY?

Haven't you been walking on eggshells long enough?


Abuse Recovery Coach, Founder StopEmotionalAbuse.net & 21 for 21

Brandon Pipkin

As an abuse recovery coach, Brandon helps people who are confused about their relationships and tired of walking on eggshells to find peace, freedom, and happiness. His insight and wisdom will help you move toward clarity, just as it has hundreds of others. He's an expert who speaks the truth with the kindness of a friend and the insight of one who really gets it (he's been there). He'll guide you through the process of self-discovery as you move from feeling hopeless to finding healing. Living in daily confusion to consistent clarity. Replacing constant conflict with beautiful peace. Let him guide you to a better life just as he has others for the past 23 years.

THIS COURSE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE. Information on this website and in this course is provided for informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for the advice provided by your physician or other psychological professionals. You should not use the information on this website or in the course for diagnosing or treating a health or psychological problem or disease, or prescribing any medication or other treatment. Information provided on this website and the use of any products or services purchased from our website by you DOES NOT create a doctor-patient relationship between you and any advisor affiliated with the website.


  • How can I pay without my partner finding out?

    If you're in an abusive relationship, chances are you are being financially abused so you fear your partner finding the charge on the debit or credit card.

    Can you open a new credit card in just your name? Sign up for electronic statements that you access through the bank website so they don't send a paper statement to the house or electronic statement via email.

    If that won't work, do you have a friend who would be willing to use their credit card for the charge and you can pay them in cash? Or trade them for services (babysitting, house cleaning, dog walking, etc.)?

    You could also see if the local domestic violence shelter would be willing to sponsor the charge. Perhaps they have donors who would be willing to cover the cost.

  • What if I think my partner is spying on me online?

    This is a very real concern. Abusers LOVE control and will often try to monitor what their partner does online.

    If this is a concern for you, create a new email account, get a new credit or debit card in just your name, and do a little research about how to keep yourself safe online.

  • How long will it take me to work through the course?

    This is a very comprehensive course. It is recommended that you treat each of the 12 modules like a counseling session, perhaps working through 1/week.

    You should work at your own pace and not rush it if you want lasting results.

  • Will the course really help me? I've tried to get help in the past...

    This is the most comprehensive, easiest to follow, most value-filled course on the subject. It took thousands of dollars and thousands of hours to acquire this knowledge, both through personal experience and piecing together the best information from competent counselors.

    It contains insights you won't find anywhere else, wisdom that will accelerate your journey and help ensure long-term emotional health.

    If you're not satisfied, simply cancel your subscription at any time.